One of my favorite passages in the bible is Deuteronomy 6:4-9, also know as “The Shema.” Shema is a Hebrew word that means “hear.” As I have been going back through some old notes from my undergraduate youth ministry classes, I ran across some valuable writings.
Most of us have probably read, sang, contemplated, and written this section of scripture. An examination of Deuteronomy 6:4-9, reveals truths that highlight the “different path” adults should take with teenagers.
Adults, starting with parents, are commanded to be active participants in their childrens’ spiritual formation. Several portions of the Deuteronomy 6 passage indicate parental and community involvement in a child’s spiritual formation.
First, “Impress them on your children” is a phrase that indicates the parents’ responsibility and agreement to teach their children about the LORD.
Second, the words “…talk … walk … lie down …get up…tie …write” are action verbs that indicate constant process. The phrase “on your forehead” indicates the LORD’s desire that, through formal teaching and the witness of right living in the lives of parents and the surrounding adult community, God’s ways remain “between the eyes” of children.
So what level of responsibility does the overall community have in the process? Historically in Israel, families carried out their formational responsibility in the context of the broad community. Supplementing the education received in the home was an entire sequence of festivals and observances that provided instructional opportunities for the whole Israelite community.
After rereading this information I am challenged as a parent to be more intentional in my two boys lives. On one level I am challenged as a parent to work harder at teaching and showing my boys the ways of Christ, and for them to begin to see that we are a part of God’s larger story. On a second level I am challenged as a NBC’er to be more involved in my community. To begin to help those around me by participating in their lives in a more intentional way. Specifically, in their children’s lives. To be a consistent presences that helps guide and strengthen.
So may God bless us as we continue to journey together and may we be “witnesses” to our children today and forever.
L’chaim!
I don’t know whether to say cheers or thanks…or both. I think maybe some of those notes were taken from your classes. Thanks for your teaching, it is still carrying weight today in my life.
L’chaim!!